Wednesday, March 25, 2009

TRUST....Extinct??????????




This is the only word, which can be used in each and every corner of the world. It’s like an Air, God, Goodwill which cannot be seen at all but its presence can be felt everywhere and anywhere. Every Soul and every bio living on planet earth has experienced trust at various point in their respective life span..

The Word "TRUST" applies to all groups of people irrespective of their castes, religion, age etc etc .A just born baby has a trust on her mother in the time of hunger, passengers traveling in Airbus A 380 has a trust in the pilot to land them safely. Shareholders have a trust in the company in which they have invested. A student has a trust in their teachers. Even a small kitten has a trust to her mother that she will protect the small one from crisis..

Trust is more than just being honest or truthful. But also about sharing, talking, communicating, listening, befriending, being they’re for someone. • Not betraying a trust – someone’s faith in you • Being a friend, a confidant, companion, partner. well wisher...Every soul must possess the art of having a trust on another or being trusted. Trust is also an art of balancing relationships. The trust has a huge impact on one's life. It can even change one's attitude, character, likings and disliking of a human soul...At the same time False trust or Violating one's trust or being violated can have serious repercussion. It can lead to serious psychological disorders like forming an hatred towards someone or a group of people, feeling of being alone, separated. These type of issues arises only in a relationship of love. This form of trust is very vital and cannot be understood easily. It should be taken on a serious note and it can affect one's moral, character and it can also bring negative impact when the trust is lost or misused...

When you trust someone, you know he or she will do the right thing. You know they have their affairs (no pun intended) under control. They are faithful and loyal. You don't need constant reassurance of this-you just know.

What you don't do is constantly grill a person about where he or she is and with whom he or she is spending time. You don't have him or her followed looking for proof of infidelity. You don't snoop around in his or her personal belongings or private places. You trust that he or she can be trusted.

If you want more trust in your life, you have to be more trusting and more worthy of trust. You can't get from others what you don't possess in yourself. If you are looking inside out, then you must ask yourself, "Am I a trustworthy person? Does my partner realize that I have integrity and can be trusted? Do I extend trust to him or her?"

Have you lost your trust? Do you want to get back to it? Let go of the wrong that was done, trust in yourself again and ultimately trust in the Universal Spirit to always and forever provide you what you need when you need it. You will discover a sense of peace and calm that will sustain you through the difficult and lonely times.