The 20th century has brought a lot of changes in this country right from primary school to the Parliment House..New developments have been introduced in every field and new fields have emerged in this country. At the same time exposure of Foreign Culture could be threatening to the ancient and most valued and respected Indian Culture in the field of love, romance and relationships....
Terminologies like Relationships, proposals , going out, infactuations, Ex girl friend & boy friends are very frequent now in the minds and hearts of the so called "YOUTH" and "FUTURE GENERATIONS OF INDIA".. I have heard only Ex-President and Ex-Prime Minister and not Ex girl friends and boy friends and i strongly believe that the word "Ex" is always given to a post which a person holds relating to official affairs and not to personal affairs and its my personal opinion.Next comes the most confusing relationships and words in Indian Culture in recent days called as "Girl friends and Boy friends". Does anyone know the exact meaning of it??? i have been asking this question to myself and my friends and still no common answer was found, every one has their own way of interpreting those words. Some say that a girl/boy friend is one who they love in the present and they may marry in the future and some "fools"believe that its a temporary relationship and they dont even possess the idea of continuing the so called relationship to the next day. Few strongly believe that they will marry the person whom they loved right from the age of 15-17 and carry till the age of 25-27.. This is the only so called relationship which can be interpreted in million ways, and no other relationships can possess more than one ameaning like "girl /boyfriend" relationship..
To be honest the most complicated part of human life is the era of "adolescence"... Love and Friendships are the only two words confused in the minds of the INDIAN YOUTHS..Still 90% of the total youth population commit errors in these two golden words...
Next comes the beauty of being commiited.. where both the guy and the girl burn their dad's money in the form of increasing the phone and the internet biils and the guys pocket money goes in the hands of the girl in the form of a diamond ring. They contribute the maximum turonover to High tech malls in the city, boutique shops, theatres etc..Apart from losing precious things like money and time , they also lose other intangibles , their mental virginity in the name of flirting..
Fianlly arrives the final stage of this relationship popularly termed as "break up". Its a situation where both the guy and the girl doesnt possess the feeling of being loved . The relationship status in Orkut profile will be changed from "committed" to "single" in just few hours or days. Thus orginates the post of EX GIRL/BOY FRIEND...
Fianlly to end with i wish to say that the terms mentioned above have made no meaning to the word "Marriage" which is considered as sacred in the country of india.. Marriages are made in heaven can be re written as "marriages are made from the failure of love and relationships.....
4 comments:
its really WOW!!!
well done...was fun reading it... yet, a huge truth hidden between the lines...!!!
Loved this one..!! cherish it.. i've never said this 2 any of yours before..!!!:D
I personally love the flow.. :)
cheers..
wareeeehhh..wow.....nice writing da......nice style of damaging
THALA!!! Awesome da.. Can see it took a lot of personal experiences for you to pen this down. But still as far as what you have written, you have made good analysis from your past. But seriously hope you'll take this in your life.. "Love and Friendships are the only two words confused in the minds of the INDIAN YOUTHS". Awesome line but its not only this but everything is overrated in our country.. Super post da... Keep it way up!!! CHEERS!!
Some vry nice thoughts .. tho i don entirely agree.. tru that quite a gud number of ppl treat relationships jus as a matter of social status or time pass or coz of the hype....Bt, comparing the situation with olden days, in the past ppl were too conserved and restricted by society to explore a lot of things.. Bt today, dats nt the case.. there is freedom abt a lot of things.. So is the case wid finding ppl who are compatable wid a psrn's nature.. it better that way than to be stuck wid some1 for life without knowing anything abt them and ending up wid unhappily married couples who in turn put down their children's development and happiness.. It is each prsn's individual choice to decide between hype and real relationships..
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