A Perfect Man .. Do they really exist ??

 

A Perfect Man, most of us in this 20th Century have come to an conclusion that  two things have gone extinct. One is the Dinosaur and another one is a Perfect man someone who makes things good or do good things to others. 

 Honestly we don't see Dinosaurs in real life  but we feel a Dinosaur in every man . Most of us have forgotten what is being good to ourself and to others. We have forgotten  our morals , we have forgotten our culture because we are only humans and animals don't compromise on their individuality whether they are born street dogs or Gunther IV ( 145 Million , Worlds richest Dog). I don't want to deviate any more. I have a basic idea of a perfect man. Its really tough to survive in this society to be perfect and do things in a right way but why can't we at least give it a shot and see.

Personally I feel " Nallavan eh Nadikardhu easy, Nallavan eh Vazhayardhu romba ve Kasthtam"" ( its Easy to act  as a good human but its the toughest to be a good one).

 Everything can't be good but something or very few things can be good and perfect. You don't need to do special things these days to project you as a different person  but being good itself is something special these days.  I have an basic idea of a perfect man ,someone  who stands up for his beliefs , follow his conscience  lives by his principles no matter what others say , have the courage to do what is right and to try new things even when it is hard or costly , build and guard your reputation, 

 A Perfect man has to forgive more and criticize less.  Criticizing is a fear relating activity and does not contribute to a healthy relationship . Forgiveness is actually an art, not many can possess this skill , it is the other side of true bravery .Forgiveness is something we need to do for ourselves and for others.

 A Perfect man is someone who takes responsibility even during crisis. its easy to make hay when the sun shines but it take a lot of efforts to make hay when things go hay wire and it needs real strength and guts to take responsibility of the situation , Winning or losing is secondary but standing up and facing a crisis when others are happy to step out is something different. 

 A perfect man has to be  completely honest, everyone makes a mistake and people who can admit their faults are admired. Honesty is an asset and its one off the costliest of all moral traits. Not many possess it but the one who possess real honesty is considered the richest.

 A perfect man doesn't argue much but will always lend his ears to others to hear out their  problems  and empathise more rather sympathising.

 A perfect man doesn't drop  his mouth with the tongue hanging out when another beautiful woman walks by. He has to appreciate it , look a little instead of starring. 

 A perfect man always dress very simple but neat clothes. He doesn't need to be Fair in looks, well shaved and well groomed but whatever he wears should be simple , neat and presentable. 

 A perfect man who is someone who loves his people and his country a lot. He is someone who wants to contribute to the society at-least once in his lifetime .Someone who can be loyal at all times. He is someone who respects humanity first and money comes last in his ladder. Someone who can die for real Love and affection. Be charitable and altruistic — give money, time, support, and comfort for the sake of making someone else’s life better, not for praise or gratitude , Help people in need.

Someone who can take charge of his own life • Set realistic goals • Keep a positive outlook • Be prudent and self-disciplined with his health, emotions, time and money • Be rational — act out of reason not anger, revenge or fear • Know the difference between what  is  right to do and what is not • Be self-reliant — manage his own  life and not dependent on others. 

 Its Easy to write it as a blog and many things can be added apart from this . Its really tough to see all these traits in real . Love to see a man with all this traits in real life and possessing all the traits is not a deal but surviving in this society where money is respected more when compared to human feelings is not a easy affair. Love to complete this with a note " Indha ulaghathil yevanume Raaman illai"