Every Life has a purpose

     

dwhy  am here in this planet ?  In this planet? Why we are given this life just to live for the sake of living. Just to add +1 to this never ending population ?  Am i given this life just to sit, eat , mint money ( as the rest of the world says) ?  We Humans doesn;t know  on why we are here . We created our own rules , regulations and called it Life.  Everyone has their own definitions , Everyone created their own rules and called it " This is how one should live".  Everyone expects you to possess something . Nature never asked you to possess anything , Nature gave us only brains , we have confused our mind  on everything in this planet.  Nature created us, created almost everything that human race could use and we were given brains on how effectively things could be used so that nature & human race could co exist. We have misplaced almost everything, We have mismatched things between Need Vs Luxury, Using Vs Misusing. Giving Vs Sharing.  We have to unlearn so many things to actually renew our basic nature. 

Money was discovered to reduce constraint on trade of goods & services. 
Money is any clearly identifiable object of value that is generally accepted as payment for goods and services. We have attached emotions to the role of money. We have got it totally wrong. 

Power & Govt was created to serve people and to manage their needs. Religion existed to enhance  worship of a superhuman controlling power . We have misused almost everything that was designed to serve us.We have adulterated religion , purpose of a good governance and role of money. 

Whose fault is all this ??  Its Us, No God asked or taught us to attach emotions to non living things or things that can be used to demonize human race.  Every holy book, Every religious saints have told one thing in common. Every creation is divine and it has a purpose. Every life has a role to play in this mother earth. We are all given one chance (Life) to prove on why we are here. We are all created just to find our purpose of life. Add meaning to our creation that is in line with the laws of nature. 

 

We don't know what is  happy . "Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence" . We were all created to be happy , We were all created to do something to make others happy. We were not taught to live happily , we are taught to chant religious lines, We are taught to mint money , We are taught to harm others, we are trained in handling guns & machines.  We are not taught to smile , We are not taught to handle defeat, We are not taught to face life. We are bunch of cowards who forgets to live today and worries for tomorrow which never turns up. We don't know the importance of a human body, health , We don't know how a man should live, We don't know to live, We have been trained in almost everything except on knowing what life is and what life is all about.

  

  

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Always wondered why i am here 

A Perfect Man .. Do they really exist ??

 

A Perfect Man, most of us in this 20th Century have come to an conclusion that  two things have gone extinct. One is the Dinosaur and another one is a Perfect man someone who makes things good or do good things to others. 

 Honestly we don't see Dinosaurs in real life  but we feel a Dinosaur in every man . Most of us have forgotten what is being good to ourself and to others. We have forgotten  our morals , we have forgotten our culture because we are only humans and animals don't compromise on their individuality whether they are born street dogs or Gunther IV ( 145 Million , Worlds richest Dog). I don't want to deviate any more. I have a basic idea of a perfect man. Its really tough to survive in this society to be perfect and do things in a right way but why can't we at least give it a shot and see.

Personally I feel " Nallavan eh Nadikardhu easy, Nallavan eh Vazhayardhu romba ve Kasthtam"" ( its Easy to act  as a good human but its the toughest to be a good one).

 Everything can't be good but something or very few things can be good and perfect. You don't need to do special things these days to project you as a different person  but being good itself is something special these days.  I have an basic idea of a perfect man ,someone  who stands up for his beliefs , follow his conscience  lives by his principles no matter what others say , have the courage to do what is right and to try new things even when it is hard or costly , build and guard your reputation, 

 A Perfect man has to forgive more and criticize less.  Criticizing is a fear relating activity and does not contribute to a healthy relationship . Forgiveness is actually an art, not many can possess this skill , it is the other side of true bravery .Forgiveness is something we need to do for ourselves and for others.

 A Perfect man is someone who takes responsibility even during crisis. its easy to make hay when the sun shines but it take a lot of efforts to make hay when things go hay wire and it needs real strength and guts to take responsibility of the situation , Winning or losing is secondary but standing up and facing a crisis when others are happy to step out is something different. 

 A perfect man has to be  completely honest, everyone makes a mistake and people who can admit their faults are admired. Honesty is an asset and its one off the costliest of all moral traits. Not many possess it but the one who possess real honesty is considered the richest.

 A perfect man doesn't argue much but will always lend his ears to others to hear out their  problems  and empathise more rather sympathising.

 A perfect man doesn't drop  his mouth with the tongue hanging out when another beautiful woman walks by. He has to appreciate it , look a little instead of starring. 

 A perfect man always dress very simple but neat clothes. He doesn't need to be Fair in looks, well shaved and well groomed but whatever he wears should be simple , neat and presentable. 

 A perfect man who is someone who loves his people and his country a lot. He is someone who wants to contribute to the society at-least once in his lifetime .Someone who can be loyal at all times. He is someone who respects humanity first and money comes last in his ladder. Someone who can die for real Love and affection. Be charitable and altruistic — give money, time, support, and comfort for the sake of making someone else’s life better, not for praise or gratitude , Help people in need.

Someone who can take charge of his own life • Set realistic goals • Keep a positive outlook • Be prudent and self-disciplined with his health, emotions, time and money • Be rational — act out of reason not anger, revenge or fear • Know the difference between what  is  right to do and what is not • Be self-reliant — manage his own  life and not dependent on others. 

 Its Easy to write it as a blog and many things can be added apart from this . Its really tough to see all these traits in real . Love to see a man with all this traits in real life and possessing all the traits is not a deal but surviving in this society where money is respected more when compared to human feelings is not a easy affair. Love to complete this with a note " Indha ulaghathil yevanume Raaman illai"

 

 

 

 

True Love in Reality..

How many of us believe in true love, well true love exists but humans dont know to utilize it efficiently. The Love arising between the age of 19- 26 is something complicated and people find it tough to manage and they suffer .All these agonies and hardships are due to because of few things like becoming over possessive of your partner , too much expectations from them and suffocating them by constantly proving your quantum of love.. True love means so many things, True love does not mean that the two people who say they love each other really love each other and things. Love is all about sacrifice, trust, no expectations from your partner, sharing everything and above all unconditional love should be an ingredient in making a love as a true one.

True love can be both two- sided as well as one sided love. Pain is definitely high in one side love where one is in love with the other whereas the other doesn't feel the love of that person or he/ she may not possess those feeling towards the other. True love is all about pouring love even when you know that the other person wont reciprocate the same and its all about unconditional love that you pour when you don't expect the same from the other person. Expectations leads to heart break if the things we expected doesn't happen. Many in love always expect something in some kind or the other from the person . Love is all about letting your loved one's free according to their choices and preferences. how come in this world only mother's love is worshiped or regarded very high and how many mothers leave their sons or vice versa? the answer is no mother stops her love towards her kid and vice versa.Only reason to that is mothers love or parental love is all about setting the other one free, pouring lots and lots of unconditional love, trusting the loved ones and doesn't expect anything in return.. True love can win anyone's heart at any point of time and in any situation.

Any1 can do Anything.....

According to me, the worst situation in life is not death, lack of money, poverty, unemployment , scarcity of resources but its nothing but when others rate you low.. This situation was faced by many legends in world history , a teacher told him that he is too stupid to learn anything in school and he should go into a field where he might succeed and the student is "Thomas Alva Edison".

Walt Disney was insulted and underestimated in a newspaper agency saying that "he lacked creativity". Dropped from the school basket ball team and he locked in his room and cried and he is "Michael Jordan". This list also contains greats like Abraham Lincoln , Kamal Hassan, Saurav Ganguly and the list goes on. People who considered great in their fields now and legends of today were the victims of insults, being ignored, left out, under-estimated, chucked out, thrown out etc etc.

The most easiest thing in life is killing one's moral mentally and low balling him & the most knottiest thing in life is facing this hard situation and going through a torturous battle mentally and coming out successfully and making the low ballers feel low..

"Anyone can do anything in this world" & it is necessary that each & every soul should possess this line in their deepest heart before killing one's morale by under estimating them or low balling them ..

All the people are same in terms of physical & mental capabilities and this word of under estimations & harsh words can ruin one's life mentally. Mental tortures are the worst enemies to man kind unlike physical tortures which can bring sudden death that gives a relief instead of suffering mentally second by second.

The same under estimations or feeling low mentally do possess some good repercussions in one's morale. It actually motivates a soul indirectly and makes the heart to prove something to get out of that torturous world.This is real strength. This is the ultimate power of humans which differentiate us from the other species and people who possess this amount of strength and will-power needs to be worshiped and in fact every soul possess this trait in every atom in our body and thus its our misapprehension that we think we don't possess this trait at all. There is one golden rule "we have everything that we wanted in our life & all we need to do is search for them in ourselves , hunt for everything and anything for you to be happy and it will be there for you"....

The Early love..!!! Pick up, Drop and Escapes...

The 20th century has brought a lot of changes in this country right from primary school to the Parliment House..New developments have been introduced in every field and new fields have emerged in this country. At the same time exposure of Foreign Culture could be threatening to the ancient and most valued and respected Indian Culture in the field of love, romance and relationships....

Terminologies like Relationships, proposals , going out, infactuations, Ex girl friend & boy friends are very frequent now in the minds and hearts of the so called "YOUTH" and "FUTURE GENERATIONS OF INDIA".. I have heard only Ex-President and Ex-Prime Minister and not Ex girl friends and boy friends and i strongly believe that the word "Ex" is always given to a post which a person holds relating to official affairs and not to personal affairs and its my personal opinion.Next comes the most confusing relationships and words in Indian Culture in recent days called as "Girl friends and Boy friends". Does anyone know the exact meaning of it??? i have been asking this question to myself and my friends and still no common answer was found, every one has their own way of interpreting those words. Some say that a girl/boy friend is one who they love in the present and they may marry in the future and some "fools"believe that its a temporary relationship and they dont even possess the idea of continuing the so called relationship to the next day. Few strongly believe that they will marry the person whom they loved right from the age of 15-17 and carry till the age of 25-27.. This is the only so called relationship which can be interpreted in million ways, and no other relationships can possess more than one ameaning like "girl /boyfriend" relationship..

To be honest the most complicated part of human life is the era of "adolescence"... Love and Friendships are the only two words confused in the minds of the INDIAN YOUTHS..Still 90% of the total youth population commit errors in these two golden words...

Next comes the beauty of being commiited.. where both the guy and the girl burn their dad's money in the form of increasing the phone and the internet biils and the guys pocket money goes in the hands of the girl in the form of a diamond ring. They contribute the maximum turonover to High tech malls in the city, boutique shops, theatres etc..Apart from losing precious things like money and time , they also lose other intangibles , their mental virginity in the name of flirting..

Fianlly arrives the final stage of this relationship popularly termed as "break up". Its a situation where both the guy and the girl doesnt possess the feeling of being loved . The relationship status in Orkut profile will be changed from "committed" to "single" in just few hours or days. Thus orginates the post of EX GIRL/BOY FRIEND...

Fianlly to end with i wish to say that the terms mentioned above have made no meaning to the word "Marriage" which is considered as sacred in the country of india.. Marriages are made in heaven can be re written as "marriages are made from the failure of love and relationships.....

Winners don't do different things,they do things differently.

There are no ideal conditions in life. Winners have proved everything only in adverse conditions.Winners have translated dreams into reality , losers have translated reality into dreams.

"The best idea will not work unless you work the idea"

How many people think only positive thinking can make everything possible.? The answer is "nothing is possible with only positive thinking".Positive thinking does not guarentee success.Positive thinking with efforts will increase the probability of success.

When Muhammad Ali  used to go in the ring, he used to say " I am the greatest i am the champion". He never said " Hope i win".. There was complete positive thinking. When he used to walk in the ring and when he saw the opponent and his belt and he used to say " you have the belt but i am the champion".

He did not become a champion only by shouting "" I am the greatest i am the champion".

While he was doing this positive thinking, he was not sitting in the living room watching Tv, drinking beer and having pop corns , he was in the ring punching the bag.

"Winners put in extra efforts even when it hurts".  A Championship wrestler was asked "how did you become a champion"? He said when i was practising i was so exhausted i wanted to give a give up but he said he pictured what his opponent was doing, he must be still practising so i went for more practice. One point came where i wanted to give up, i again visualised what my opponent must be doing and he must be practising and again i went for more practice.

Finally at one point came where i could not lift up myself anymore & i dont think my opponent can lift himself anymore either. I pictured him in the shower and guess what i did?? I went back into more practice.

Winners don't do different things , they do things differently...

 

Nostradamus Future????????????

Nostradamus: Predictions for the Past, Present and Future     Is it possible to see into the future?  Many believe that a man named Michel de Nostradamus could.  His predictions of the future have mystified scholars for over four hundred years.  Nostradamus made over one thousand predictions and historians say that over half of them have already come true.  The most startling of his predictions deal with the coming of three anti-Christ’s (Guentte). If his predictions of the past are accurate, then his predictions for the future may also come true.

Nostradamus is by far the most widely read and well known prophet in the history of the planet. His predictions still make headline news today, and are still considered to be largely correct, though the predictions are often misinterpreted and are in many cases very vague, some of them have been chillingly accura

Nostradamus has been credited with predicting everything from the death of Kennedy to the assassination of Lincoln to his very own demise predicted to his assistant at the end of his last night on Earth. Nostradamus future predictions reportedly predicted the Gulf War, the great fire of London, Nostradamus future predictions actually are purported to have nailed just about everything that has ever happened, but the fact of the matter is that, indeed, most of these things are not the case if you listen to historians. 

If Nostradamus truly predicted Napoleon and Hitler we should take heed of his words about the future. Perhaps we can prevent the dismal fate Nostradamus has predicted 

Gayatri Mantra.... the mother of all Vedas...

The Gayatri Mantra is one of the most important and popular Sanskrit Mantras. It combines praise, prayer and meditation.

The simple meaning of Gayatri mantra is "May the Almighty God illuminate our intellect to lead us along the righteous path". And here is the word by word meaning of Gayatri Maha Mantram

The first nine words of Gayatri mantra describes the glory of God

Aum - Brahma
Bhoor - embodiment of vital spiritual energy (pran)
Bhuwah - destroyer of sufferings
Swaha - embodiment of happiness 
Tat - that 
Savitur - bright like sun
Varenyam - best choicest
Bhargo - destroyer of sins 
Devasya - divine 
Dheemahi - may absorb - pertains to meditation
Dhiyo - intellect 
Yo - who 
Naha - our
Prachodayat - may inspire 

 

Vedas are considered as the true and real source of knowledge. Ancient Rishis who were the great Gurus have arranged the Gayatri mantra in such a way that chanting this Maha mantra will provide immense energy as the syllables of the mantra are believed to positively affect all the energy centers (chakras) in the human body. Hence proper pronunciation of the mantra is required to correctly invoke the energy centers of our body.

Chanting of Gayatri mantra helps to illuminate our intellect and remove all the obstacles on our path and helps in our spiritual growth and development. 

The Gayatri Mantra can enable us to perform hard work, to plan for and overcome life's difficulties. The word 'Gayatri' means to pray and sing the glory of God to direct our intellect in an honest and just direction. The mantra is not a remedy for pain. The Gayatri Mantra beautifies our intellect and this helps the intellect seek the right path.

Dr Radhakrishnan said: "The Gayatri is the bestower of new life and is a unique prayer. Tagore accepted this mantra as a simple and great one which has the power to awaken India".

 

Gayatri is that mantra which guides our faculty of thinking in difficult circumstances. It is a simple mantra that can be recited daily by all, regardless of age, race, group, sex or religious adoption. The Gayatri can improve our thinking and judgment, give us better control over our anxieties and emotions, cultivate determination and self-esteem, inner peace and prosperity. Meditation on the Gayatri Mantra calms the disturbed mind.

TRUST....Extinct??????????

This is the only word, which can be used in each and every corner of the world. It’s like an Air, God, Goodwill which cannot be seen at all but its presence can be felt everywhere and anywhere. Every Soul and every bio living on planet earth has experienced trust at various point in their respective life span..

The Word "TRUST" applies to all groups of people irrespective of their castes, religion, age etc etc .A just born baby has a trust on her mother in the time of hunger, passengers traveling in Airbus A 380 has a trust in the pilot to land them safely. Shareholders have a trust in the company in which they have invested. A student has a trust in their teachers. Even a small kitten has a trust to her mother that she will protect the small one from crisis..

Trust is more than just being honest or truthful. But also about sharing, talking, communicating, listening, befriending, being they’re for someone. • Not betraying a trust – someone’s faith in you • Being a friend, a confidant, companion, partner. well wisher...Every soul must possess the art of having a trust on another or being trusted. Trust is also an art of balancing relationships. The trust has a huge impact on one's life. It can even change one's attitude, character, likings and disliking of a human soul...At the same time False trust or Violating one's trust or being violated can have serious repercussion. It can lead to serious psychological disorders like forming an hatred towards someone or a group of people, feeling of being alone, separated. These type of issues arises only in a relationship of love. This form of trust is very vital and cannot be understood easily. It should be taken on a serious note and it can affect one's moral, character and it can also bring negative impact when the trust is lost or misused...

When you trust someone, you know he or she will do the right thing. You know they have their affairs (no pun intended) under control. They are faithful and loyal. You don't need constant reassurance of this-you just know.

What you don't do is constantly grill a person about where he or she is and with whom he or she is spending time. You don't have him or her followed looking for proof of infidelity. You don't snoop around in his or her personal belongings or private places. You trust that he or she can be trusted.

If you want more trust in your life, you have to be more trusting and more worthy of trust. You can't get from others what you don't possess in yourself. If you are looking inside out, then you must ask yourself, "Am I a trustworthy person? Does my partner realize that I have integrity and can be trusted? Do I extend trust to him or her?"

Have you lost your trust? Do you want to get back to it? Let go of the wrong that was done, trust in yourself again and ultimately trust in the Universal Spirit to always and forever provide you what you need when you need it. You will discover a sense of peace and calm that will sustain you through the difficult and lonely times.

Are You a Producer of Wealth or a Prisoner of Poverty?

Are you a prisoner of poverty, debt, loss, lack of happiness, feeling overloaded, frustrated and an inmate to failure? Noted author and American born mystic Neville says: "There is no fiction. Tomorrows world is today's fiction." (The definition of Fiction being something invented or created by ones imagination.)

The Primary Cause of Poverty is a Poverty Mindset (consciousness). The Primary Cause of Wealth is a Prosperity Mindset (consciousness). States of mind (consciousness) are passed down from one generation to the next. A poverty state of mind will cause you to see, hear, think, feel and act in alignment with lack.

The Law of Attraction states that your thoughts and feelings create a force field of energy that radiates out from you and draws back into your life people, things and situations in tune with them. In other words, you become what you believe and feel to be true. Poverty is an outcome produced by way of our thoughts and feelings. Therefore, it becomes clear that forces act along parallel lines. The challenges to our personal, professional, and financial success are for the most part self-created in our very own imagination.

- Would you like to express your true talents, feel appreciated, and have peace of mind and perfect health?

Now is the Time to Live Abundantly.

The joy of living the abundant life can be achieved once you understand that you were born to succeed and realize your dreams. You are fully equipped to become the master of your destiny. We humans fear change until we awaken to the truth that within the depths of our consciousness is an Infinite Power.

Knowing how to tap into it, empowers us to move forward beyond all the sorrow, guilt, grudges and fearful beliefs buried in our memory. The miracle working power of imagination enables us to take action, Image First and get results, regardless of how unfairly we were treated in the past.

There is No One to Change but Yourself.

Obstacles, a scoundrel of a boss or employee, a difficult situation and or event will not change on their own. However, once you awaken to your spiritual and mental powers, connect to a positive focus, understand and apply the Laws of Life, (not just the Law of Attraction) you will find yourself meeting all demands and challenges head on. You will refuse to allow people, situations and things to rob you of your focus and happiness. You will develop your confidence.

Phoenix which is alive in this World...

The name "Phoenix" comes to my mind when i hear or see the name "Michael Schumacher". A soul which doesnt need any introduction to any human. Born on January 3rd , 1969 in Germany .His Parents joined him in the nearest karting track where he became the youngest member of that karting club. He made his first debut in the year 1991 with the jordan ford in the Belgian Grand Prix. From 1991-2006 was his invasion.

He became the world champion in the year 1994 with benetton ford.The season, however, was marred by the deaths of Ayrton Senna in San Marino Grand Prix. He joined Ferrari in the year 1996. Ferrari has not won the constructors championship since 1983.

At 37, he has raced in 247 Formula One Prix, 178 of them for Ferrari, won 90 races, 71 for Ferrari, taken 68 pole positions, 58 for Ferrari, and set 75 fastest laps on his way to seven drivers' world titles, including five for the Scuderia

Too many controversial incidents have punctuated his time at the top, too many accidents, incidents and allegations of wrong-doing, including rumours that in 1994 and 1995 when he won his first titles with Benetton, that the team had an unfair advantage. 

All of this has thrown shadows, but none of it should go anywhere near reducing the brilliant light created by his talent and his ability to win Formula One races in a style that he has stamped on the imagination of a wide sporting public. 

Schumacher's catalogue of alleged misdemeanours included a collision in Adelaide at the 1994 Australian Grand Prix where Briton Hill was forced to retire and so Schumacher lifted his first title, another in 1997 when he collided deliberately with Jacques Villeneuve , but lost out and not only failed to win the title, but was punished for it too by the sport's ruling body.


No wonder thousands of the Ferrari team's red-bedecked tifosi stood on the asphalt of the Autodromo Nazionale to cheer him to the end after his 90th victory and his fifth at Monza. 

But as the Italians celebrated his victory and his career, others scoffed. It has been this way since the early days due to his reputation for defending with aggression, sometimes forcing other drivers off the circuit and leaving no room for error. 

His critics talk of his questionable racing ethics, but his admirers talk only of his virtuoso racing. As a result, he is a question of magnificent achievements but with a reputation that has divided the paddock. 

Purists argue that he should not be included in the pantheon of greatest racing drivers alongside Juan Manuel Fangio, Jim Clark or Stirling Moss, widely described as the greatest driver never to win the championship. 

But the records speak for themselves and Schumacher will be remembered for his competitive instincts, his professionalism, his fitness and his relentless run of successes in the era that followed the 1994 death of Ayrton Senna who was, arguably, the man who introduced bruising and aggressive tactics to the tracks of Formula One. 

He was also accused of cheating earlier this year when he left his car on the fast line ahead of Fernando Alonso's Renault in qualifying for the Monaco Grand Prix. 

Notably, this son of a bricklayer from Kerpen, near Cologne, has become the first German winner and champion in the history of Formula One.